07 March 2012

Emotional Band Aid

Hey Strangers!

So it's Wednesday once again and damn has it been an interesting week!

Long story short, there's a super sweet guy I've been talking to. He's funny, he's nerdy, he's thoughtful, a little needy, but overall a real doll. Only problem is... I'm not attracted to him at all.

Now I'm not a queen who needs a Ken doll boyfriend but if you're not attracted to someone... there's nothing really to be done about it. We hung out once on what I suppose you could call a date. There was no kiss, no advances, just a nice, friendly day.

The current problem? He really likes me.

I could tell at the end of the "date" that he wanted to kiss me and ever since, he's been trying to arrange another date. I keep giving excuses but I just don't know what to say! I've never been this actively pursued by someone that I wasn't interested in.

Question of the Day: Is it better to just rip the bandage off and tell someone there's no chance or is it kinder to play the game and hope he gets the hint or gets bored?

Forever Yours,

Sir Gation


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